WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER DEBAT
A BLACK WOMAN
You can kill a man
But not a idea
“Once you learn to read,
you will be forever free”
Debate – a formal discussion on a particular topic in a public
meeting or legislative assembly, in which opposing arguments
are put forward; verb – argue about (a subject), especially in
a formal manner.
If women actually read the above definition, they’d realize that
when they say they “debated” someone, that all they did was yell
about something emotionally and argue (not in a formal manner)
the entire time.
Black women on the other hand, take it to a whole different level.
They’re louder, bitchier, and much more delusional when debating
anyone about anything…especially men, most notably black men.
Getting into a debate with a black woman is a fool’s errand and
here are the top 8 reasons why:
#1: She won’t listen
Black women are notorious for talking outta the sides of their collective
necks for little to no reason at all. They’ll be standing around doing
nothing, then all of a sudden a thought comes into their heads and their
mouths start running like a broken toilet and they’re seldom aware of
If you want to have a conversation with them on a topic you disagree with
them about (read: “debate”), you’ll get the same treatment. She’ll run off
at the mouth and will not stop talking meaning she’s not listening either.
It’s pointless to talk to someone who doesn’t take a breath long enough to
hear what you’re saying.
#2: She’s impervious to reason or rationale
On the off chance she stops talking long enough for you to get a word in
edgewise, you’ll likely make a reasonable counter argument that is also
rational and measured…exactly what is expected in a debate.
The problem is that women don’t listen to reason and they damn sure don’t
listen to rationale. Even if what you say makes perfect sense, she won’t
realize it because females by nature are designed to be reasonable in the
Add that to the fact that black females rarely listen to anything anyone
says, your counter argument will simply go in one ear and out the other
regardless of how much sense it makes.
#3: Her arguments will be emotional
Black women are angry by nature and if you as a black man attempts to have
a debate with one of them, be prepared for a veritable assault of emotions.
If you say: “I disagree. The sky is blue.” She’ll reply with: “Fuck you nigga!
You want the sky to be blue because you’re an asshole! If you would open your
fuckin’ eyes and look around you and see shit ain’t what it always looks like
you’d know how dumb you are!”
Expecting a woman to remove emotion and inject reason or rationale into her
arguments and/or counter arguments you’ll be sorely disappointed.
#4: She’ll yell and talk over you when she knows you’re onto something
Men and women alike are guilty of this but black women are the biggest offenders.
When she closes her mouth and actually opens her mind long enough to hear what
you’re saying and realizes that you might be making a point that will effectively
win the debate, she’ll simply yell and talk over you.
The reason they do this is to stop you from dropping the hammer on her and make
her look bad and possibly :::gasp::: wrong. Black chicks hate being wrong about
anything that comes out of their mouths and will stoop to adolescent level tactics
to make sure it doesn’t happen.
But that’s not the only tactic they use. If she gets the idea you might actually
be making sense on any given topic…
#5: She’ll “muddy the waters”
Another infuriating tactic black females use during an argument is what I call
“muddy the waters.” Here’s a quick example:
You: “I’m telling you the reason black men are dating non black women is because
non black women bring more to the table and don’t mind being submissive to a man.”
Her: “Nigga, my mama was submissive to my father and he beat her ass every damn
day! That’s the problem with niggas is y’all always tryin’ to put your hands on
So rather than making a counter argument to what was said, she brought in domestic
violence because deep down she knows that black women aren’t submissive and that
black men (and men of all races for that matter) like submissive women.
#6: You won’t change her mind
When in a debate with someone it is assumed that the individual is willing to have
their mind changed if presented with new information about a given topic. No, this
isn’t always the case but intelligent people understand that they could be wrong
about certain things and are open to different points of view.
Black women, on the other hand, are not here for that. They don’t want to get it
right, they want to be right. No matter what they hear (if they’re even listening),
they’re not going to change their mind for no other reason but that they’re stubborn
#7: Even if you change her mind she won’t acknowledge it
“Okay, okay. I admit it. You’re right and I’m wrong…” said no black woman ever.
Black women are a lot of things. Stupid is not one of them. However, their
stubbornness and need to be right makes them look stupid.
You could nuke her argument from orbit and effectively disprove everything she
said while making your point undeniable and know that you’re 100% right but she
will never verbally acknowledge it…to others or herself.
So if you think a black female will ever acknowledge that she’s wrong or worse,
that you’re right, think again. This will never be the case…at least not in my
#8: She’ll play the reverse blame game
Ever heard or been in an exchange like this?
“Single moms are bad parents.”
“Well single dads are worse!”
Anytime a black man makes a claim or an accusation against black women,
they always retaliate with “Oh yeah? Well….well….black men do it too and
they do it worse!”
Doesn’t matter what it is. Black women have attitudes? So do black men.
Black women don’t appreciate good treatment? It’s because of black men.
Regardless of what you say about them they reverse it and make the same
accusation against us and make it sound worse.
The bottom line is…
…that you should never debate black women at any time for any reason on
any topic. It’s an exercise in futility at best, and a raging headache
The sad part about this is that they are intelligent enough to have a
conversation with and instinctual enough to understand and comprehend
the topic at hand. But their temperaments, stubbornness, and overall
anger makes it impossible to get anything through their thick skulls.
This is one of many reasons they’re at the bottom of the sexual totem
pole but far be it from them to acknowledge that and actually do
something about it.
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